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The Aesthetics Lab — Formation Protocol

TELL US
WHERE YOU ARE

This is not a standard intake form. It is a conversation on paper — designed to give the practitioner a precise picture of who you are and what you are carrying before you walk in the door.

25–35 minutes No right answers Completely confidential Reviewed within 48 hours

You probably don't have a name for what brought you here. Most men don't. Something isn't working the way it should — not on the outside, where you are likely performing fine, but somewhere underneath the performance. You feel it. You just haven't been able to get your hands on it.

Answer these questions from that place. Not from the version of yourself that has it together. From the version that knows something is off. That's the version we can work with.

Section 01
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ABOUT YOU

Basic information so the practitioner knows who is in front of them before anything else.

Your World
Not the formal title — what you actually carry. Two or three sentences.
Section 02
02

YOUR BODY'S HISTORY

The practitioner needs to understand your body before working with it — what it has been through, how you've been training it, and what has and hasn't helped.

Select everything that applies.
Where, what happened, when, what was done, and how it sits today. Don't minimize it.
A few things that would need to be discussed before the session begins: a bone fracture still healing, surgery within the last 12 weeks, a nerve condition affecting sensation, or a diagnosed condition involving extreme joint laxity. These aren't automatic disqualifiers — but flag them below.
What You've Already Tried
Select all that apply.
What did it give you? What couldn't it reach?
Section 03
03

HOW YOU FEEL IN YOUR BODY

Not how you perform. Not how you look. How you actually feel — the internal experience most men never slow down enough to describe accurately. Answer from what is actually true.

Your Default State
1 = none at all — relaxed and easy.  10 = locked up, can't release it.
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Relaxed and easyLocked and can't release
1 = broken and unrestoring.  10 = deep, consistent, I wake up recovered.
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Broken and unrestoringDeep and consistent
Where You Hold It
Select everything that feels true. If unsure, mark areas you notice most when you stop moving.
Under Pressure
1 = I live almost entirely in my head.  10 = I notice subtle physical shifts and know what they mean.
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Live in my headHighly body-attuned
If you don't have precise language, describe it from the outside in. What's different about how you move, breathe, or take up space?
Section 04
04

THE GAP

Most men who come here know what they're supposed to be. The question is whether they can live up to it consistently — not just when conditions are favorable, but when they aren't.

The boardroom under challenge? Competition at the decisive moment? At home when you've got nothing left?
Being Present
1 = I can't. The moment I try, I'm already planning or agitated.  10 = Stillness comes naturally and gives me something.
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Can't stop — makes it worseStillness gives me something
Not what they tell you. What you suspect they see.
Inside vs. Outside
1 = I'm performing something I can't sustain.  10 = What people see is genuinely what I am.
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Performing something I can't sustainWhat you see is what I am
The answer you almost don't write is usually the right one. No one else sees this document.
Section 05
05

WHAT'S IN YOUR HEAD

The stories you tell yourself. How you've related to getting help. What you've been absorbing that doesn't have a name yet. Not a diagnosis — a landscape.

Your Closest Relationships
Not your intention — what they likely actually feel. Write what you suspect.
What You've Been Absorbing
Select everything that applies. Not a trauma checklist — a weight inventory.
If the question produces resistance or feels impossible, write about that. That response is the answer.
Section 06
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WHAT'S AT STAKE

The weight of your current situation, and what you actually want to be different. Not the aspirational version — the true one.

Not the résumé version. The real weight of it, and how it compounds.
1 = well within my range — I have room.  10 = past what I can sustain and it's starting to show.
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Well within my rangePast what I can sustain
Coaching, training, therapy, books, retreats — what have you engaged, and where did each thing run out?
Not the performance metrics. What does your actual life look like when this isn't the problem anymore?
Section 07
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ARE YOU READY FOR THIS

The work asks specific things of you. These questions establish honest expectations on both sides before anything is scheduled.

There's no wrong answer. The honest one changes how the work begins.
Final Questions
The gap between what you'd say publicly and what you'd write here is where the work begins.
One word. Don't edit it. The first one that comes is usually the right one.

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The Aesthetics Lab · Formation Protocol